Difference Between Laughter And Happiness

You might be laughing but it does not mean you are happy. According to me "Laughter is momentory while happiness is forever." So if you laugh most of the times in the day, it does not mean you are happy, but if you do not laugh at all you might be the happiest person of the world . The above quote might be appearing like wiered but thats what i think. (Mind u theres a diffrence between Smile and Laughter)...

Everyone knows how to get laughter, Read jokes, go out with friends....do some fun. Ofcourse its nessecary to live life but very few peoples know how to get happiness. Having seen people and there reactions around me I have found out lil bit on happiness and found out how people achieve happiness.

First of all we should understand why we need happiness? According to me we need happiness to live most of the life and enjoy each and every moment of life.... no matter how much worse our conditions are.

Secondly we need to know what is happiness, Happiness is just an emotion, a good feeling, a feeling that keeps us satisfied most of the time. A feeling that saves us from sorrow, a feeling that fuels our life. A feeling which gives us a hope to live in this world of non perfect people.

Now everyone wants to be happy, so to achieve happiness we need to do one thing, simply feel satisfied with what you are contented by God. Actually human mind constantly generates desires. If our desires get fulfilled it makes us happy and if not it makes us sad. So if our one desire gets fulfilled a new desire borns and we start working to achieve that desire. So life is like a game, get your desire fulfilled (it can be anything, a car, a big house, a beautiful wife/husband or anything) and that makes us happy. The more we have worked for our desire the longer happiness stays and if we work a lot to fulfil our desire but if it ends in nothing it makes us sad. The harder we work for our desire (which is not fulfilled) it makes us more sad .So human life is all about filling desires. If one desire is fulfilled/rejected another desire is born and similary our life gets happy/sad moments accordingly.

So a normal person's life is filled with sorrow/happiness (depending on how much of his/her desires are fulfilled and how strong his/her desire was). But there are some special person(As i call them Exceptions....and Exceptions are always there) who just stay happy no matter if their desire gets fulfilled or not. These are the people who have strong faith, (faith on god, because we can't have faith on human being because no human can be perfect...and again few exceptions are there....i have faith in god and one of my deraest closest sweetest frnd :) ). So people with strong faith in God enjoy True happiness. A Happiness that never ends. The stronger your faith is on god, the more happiness you will enjoy in your life. These people's mind generate desires like any other person, but they have more stable mind. They do work to fulfil desire with faith in god. They leave the result on God. They just do their work and do not worry about result in their life. So if their desire gets fulfilled it makes them happy more than anyone else as they enjoy it as wish of God and do not worry about loosing wat they lost. But if their desire do not get fulfilled, it does not make them sad .They accept it as wish of God. They accept every bad thing happen to their life as wish of God and such bad things does not make them sad. According to them our life is Prewritten and we cant do anything about it .We just need to have faith in God and do our deeds. We are born to do something good in our life. We are born to change other people's life. We need to understand true meaning of life and start working . This does not mean that you just keep faith in god and stop working to acheive your dedires and goals....Faith in God along with Hard work is desired to achieve SUCESS AND HAPPINESS....

These are my thoughts, Your comments are welcome....